Wednesday, February 3, 2010

For Those Who Falling In Love...

Have u ever wondered which hurts the most?
Saying something and wishing u had’nt?
Or saying nothing and wishing you had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Don’t be afraid to TELL someone u love them. If u do, they might break ur heart. If u don’t, u might break theirs.Have u ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what u already had with that person?Ur heart decides whom it like and whom it doesn’t. You CAN’T tell ur heart what to do. It does it on its own. When u least suspect it, or even when u don’t want it to.Have u ever wanted to love someone with everything u had, but that other person was too afraid to let u?
Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much. For fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.Have u ever denied your feelings for someone because ur fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we are afraid. Afraid of what we don’t know, afraid what others will think, afraid of what will be found out of us.But everytime we tell a lie, the things we fear will GROW stronger. Life is all about risk and it REQUIRES u to jump. Don’t be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have do.
*What u would do if everytime u wanted someone they would never be there?
*What u would do if u if ur bestfriend died tomorrow and u will never got the chance to tell them how u felt? ( EVEN IF U DON’T CARE ANYMORE )
*What could u do if u LOVED someone more than ever and u couldn’t have them?
People live, but people died. I want to tell u that u r my friend. If u died tomorrow ( God forbid ), u will be in my heart. WILL I BE IN URS? If u care about me as much I care about u, u will sent this back. We might be best friend one year, pretty good friends the next year, don’t talk at all the year after that. So, I just wanted to say, even if I never talk to u again in life, U R SPECIAL TO ME and u have made a difference in my life.I look up to u, respect u, truly cherish u, most of all I CARE about friends.
**Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.' **
p/s:'Fate Determines Who Comes Into Our Lives, But Heart Determines Who Stays...

Historia Est Vitae Magistra

Historia est vitae magistra>>> sejarah adalah guru kehidupan..
Kata2 sakti ini diungkapkan oleh sarjana terkenal latin yg menganggap sejarah itu penting. Tidak dinafikan bahawa sejarah adalah bidang ilmu yg sgt penting dan wajar dipelajari oleh semua orang...bukan nak mempromosi bidang ilmu sejarah di sini...malah bukan juga untuk memancing, meminta atau memaksa rakan2 atau sesiapa sahaja yg membaca artikel ini utk meminati bidang sejarah tetapi sekadar ingin berkongsi tentang peri pentingnya ilmu sejarah ini...
Malahan, mantan PM kita sendiri iaitu Datuk seri Dr Mahathir Mohammad turut menyeru rakyatnya agar mempelajari sejarah...Beliau juga memetik kata2 ahli falsafah Amerika iaitu George Santayana yang pernah berkata "those who forget the lessons of history will be condemned to repeat their mistakes over and over again" atau erti dlm bahasa melayunya, "mereka yg lupakan pengajaran daripada sej akan dihukum utk mengulangi kesilapan mereka berulang-ulang kali"...
Cuba kita bayangkan asal usul kita...?
Bagaimana kita dikandung dan dilahirkan oleh ibu kita....?
Bagaimana kehidupan kita sebelum ini?
Bukankah itu sebagai suatu sejarah dalam hidup kita?
Dan cuba pula bayangkan jika kita tidak mengetahui asal usul kita...diri kita...tentu sekali kita akan sesat dan mudah untuk diperkotak-katikkan oleh orang lain kan?Mungkin maklumat mengenai sejarah yg sy berikan ini tidak mencukupi atau dengan lebih tepat lagi tidak jelas..tetapi rasanya sudah cukup untuk membuka minda kita semua tentang kepentingan ilmu dan bidang sejarah ini...Oleh itu,sebagai insan yg menghargai bidang sejarah,sy rasa,elok la kita semua tidak meminggirkan ilmu sejarah walaupun kita mempelajari bidang2 atau disiplin ilmu yg lain...
**Buah Fikiran Seorang Penuntut Sejarah**